Romance: It can be an intimidating concept.
The word romance might conjure up dreamlike fantasies of laying your lover down on a rose-petal-covered bed, soft candlelight casting shadows across your smooth, flawless skin. It’s easy to pinpoint the soap-opera kind of romance, the typical clichés of a Nicholas Sparks movie where everything is predictable and easy. The situations where the guy sweeps the girl off her feet, she showers him with love and gifts, and they live happily ever after.
Unfortunately, the real world doesn’t quite work like that. How often do scenes like this actually happen in real life? It seems a lot more likely that you’d just end up with candle wax all over the place, a serious fire hazard with the potential for mounds of foliage to erupt in flames, and everyone at your office commenting on “that flowery smell” coming from your cube for a few weeks afterwards. Realistically, sweeping a girl off her feet would be her guy sending her a text asking her if she “wants to get food” (original), or a husband calling home to see if his wife needs anything picked up from the store while the kids are at soccer practice. Not exactly the stuff of a Shakespearean drama.
An occasion that calls for a romantic gesture can’t always be perfectly planned, and efforts to make it perfect can cause so much stress and pressure it can steal the joy from a day, a moment that should be meant to bring two people together. When life feels mundane and predictable, it can be hard to determine what you can do to show him that you really care.
Useful gifts for him, such as a set of power tools he’s had his eye on or a new fishing rod are functional choices, but lack personalization. Electronics can also serve as a possible gift option, but how much sentimental value could a cell phone or a tablet have? You could get a gift for him that’s more of an experience, like tickets to a sporting event or concert tickets for his favorite band. Yet memories fade, unlike a tangible gift that would stand the test of time.
A romantic gift for him should be something simple, a constant reminder of the love you share and how special he is to you. The Loving Heart Pin fits the bill. It’s not just a well-crafted quality pin, or a nice piece of jewelry that he can cherish for years to come. The Loving Heart Pin is a symbol and a demonstration of giving your heart to the man you love. It’s not gaudy or extravagant, but authentic, a genuine gesture that shows how much you care.
Perhaps your guy isn’t into jewelry. In that case, there’s always a Loving Heart Keyring or the Versatile Heart Charm, trinkets for his keys that will remind him daily of the love and support you give. You could also surprise him by slipping a Loving Heart Pocket Heart in his pants pocket. This is suggested to do as a surprise, when he is not wearing the pants, but we’re not here to make the rules. Feel free to give your guy the pocket heart in whatever circumstance you feel may be the most romantic, ladies.
When you’re shopping for something special for the man in your life, don’t settle; find something that will show him how much he means to you by selecting a gift that will mean something to him. Coming up with romantic gift ideas for him can be easier than you’d think.
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